How to be confident

    Being confident is a mental game, and it is important to understand how and why - in other words, the prerequisites - to being confident. Without reocnginz ghtere are prerequisites to every goal, you cannot get anywhere, so stop the dogmatic crap and reflect on the past to understand the present to better the future.

• First: Explore, learn, then set goals
• Know that you are setting the best goal possible
• Understand the dynamic of justifications
• If you can't justify why you're doing something, your objectively measureable level of confidence will gradually decrease.
• Think like a scientist
• identify the problem variable
• probably the hardest part
• change the varibale or avoid it or push thru it because sometimes there is no other way but to engage with the problem to solve it
• Quote: the problem is not the problem, it is your attitude of the problem proving that you are a part of the problem
• Don't take anything personal, see it as "analyzing language" and "analyze evaluation process/thinking process/criteria [applied]"
• Think of everything as a literacy lesson
• figurative language
• symbolism
• By learning how to learn and applying leadership skills in everyday life in all aspects, be proactivd don't let life get the best of you by rushing - you know not to do this.
• How you learn depends on how you've been taught and you must be taught through procedural way on how to live life not succumbing to bad leadership but by creating your own instead of complaining
• Act like you deserve it
• don't get surprised as that indicates you don't "deserve" it

Obvious Examples of why this is needed:

• You obviously know that a person who is not well educated on a subject will be less confident in their endeavors and rightfully so, as this feeling indicates a goal set to pursue for understanding.

Other implied pre-requisites not explicitely mentioned:

• Supportive friends or family

Social Impressions:

People can sense unconfidence and it people treat unconfident people differently.

• Stop smiling all of the time
• smiling is like laughing it shoes lack of self control and vulnerability
• Stop being present all of the time in one area
• Vuilnerabiltiy os presence is sharing information is presence, the more information is shared, the less it's valued
• Hold eye contract whenever possible
• Speak slowly
• Do not repsond immediately
• calmness shoes control of the situation rushing shows a lack of control (which can be justified)
• stare at fixed points
• do not slouch in your chair

Keywords:

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