Objectively Defining "Love"

Objectively Defining "Love"

Preface:

    Just like there are objective feeling of feelings - feelings are real you know. This means that there are objective ways to define "love" - by saying that it's different for everyone, they are either misidentifying what an example of love is, or they simply have no boundaries for defining what love even it. By the logic of claiming "it's different for everyone" one can even claim that rape is a form of love under that possibility.

Theories:

  • Love is trust. This trust will affect a child longer-term as how a child is treated at home will determine their tolerance level outside of the home. This proves my theory of mastering the basics and routine first before focusing on complicated tasks and intellectual desire development as you can't pursue curiosity on an empty stomach also level of vulnerability.
  • Unconditional love isn't real as everything is conditional.
    • Everything is conditional, including your existiance, it requires a certain temperature to keep your body alive - it's call common sense and common sense tells me that love is simply emotional attachment to sources tending to physiological needs the most.
    • I can prove this by the following: You can bribe anyone from this supposed "love" state of mind by isolating them and giving them 1 billion dollars.
  • what do i owe you - consequences is love
  • love is a sense of curiosity and lack of closure, there are limts to what love can be defined as, love is objectively defined as feeling of intimacy built on trust and a lack of options to pursue. True love can only be build in childhood, once it is lost, it is lost forever, and I lost mine forever.
  • Those who say love has no limits are the exact same people who say raped women should carry their babies to term as the same logic applies there.

Provoking Questions:

  • Is love a feeling?
    • It is a developed feeling of attachment, it can be prevented proactive lack of vulnerability and careful vulnerability.
      • There is only one way to preventing those cuddly feelings from developing.
    • What should love feel like?
      • What boundaries should this feel like? You only know what you feel in childhood, this is why it's important to explore emotional possibilities to learn that better is practically possible.
  • What are the limitations of this definition?
    • Define what love is - Can rape, torture be classified as love, no, so there are obviously limits on what is considered "love." - that is emotionally impossible.
      • There is no subjectivenss in defining what love, there are (objective) limits to what is considered as love.
    • Therefore, there are limitations on how this feeling is developed and I want to identify the formula used to develop this feeling as a machine learning engineer and computational neuroscientist.
  • How love works?
    • love does not work on mysterious ways? As there is alwayss something keeping us attached, be it physical or psychological.
  • What does love mean for you?
    • Obviously there is a limit on what people can define a love - a raped child cannot go to a teacher and tell them "my daddy raped me out of love" - as the effects of rape do not cause someone to become depossessed. Without objectively defining the limits of mental effects, people can claim anything.
  • How is love developed?
    • Consider all emotional possibilties
  • Is love an instinct?
  • Am i allowed to not love? Is not loving a form of love?
  • Planning is predicting and predicting controls feelings
  • It was lack of love and closure that is keeping me back in life- that is how my feelings work, I've identified the problem, now, how I'll I go about fixing it?
  • Is love a self fulfilling prophecy?
    • Weather you think you can or you cant you're right. The trick is to learn how to think you can't not do things you can do and for a good reason.
  • What does love mean for you?
  • Is your notion of love stopping you from succeeding?

 


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