How Would You Raise Your Child?

Why?

    I am doing this because how your interpret human behavior says a lot about how you judge your own behavior and says a lot of implications about you. For example, if you are one to hit animals and children, you are rather a person with far less learning skills as opposed to a person who wants to tend to their children's curiosity needs and balance with resiliency, cooperation, longer-term goals and impulses, and goal-setting in high stress environments.

    I am also doing this to show the pro-spankers that there is objective meaning in sympathizing with children's goals of pursuing curiosity as it is the purpose of life and detailing the longer-term negative effects of spanking, redefining what "negative effects" are, and how to interpret behavior and how interpreting behavior is similar to how one treats oneself and the environment. It's similar to why we don't hit or break leaves when we are mad at them, but rather try to find a physical way of changing the environment - or the leaves in this case.

How I Will Raise My Child

• When discipling children consider why they do what they do. Consider their goal of existing and surviving and how you interpret their behavior, because the goal should be to identify, not necessarily to change.  When you understand their goals of exploring, you, as the parent, can disrupt their goals by introducing another idea of saying: Hey I will let you explore at [so called place made for playing, like the trampoline park] if you can behave yourself and perform self-control in the meantime, as this assures the kid they can tend to their curiosity desires later via positive reinforcement.
• Don't prevent them from exploring and not give them an alternative to their goals, prevent them from developing that desire.
• Building confidence and trust in the public sphere
• Trust, confidence, autopilot
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