Should I adapt to the environment, or the environment adapt to me?

 I am tired of working for others, I want others to work for me - for what I want, that is.

keywords: work for me, work with me, work against me, teamwork, cooperate, trust, blaming others, sometime resting is good for working, all words describe a type of goal of identifying a goal, the goal is to identify the goal, identifying itself, I am a thinker,